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Where are you from ?<\/strong> Ireland. How old are you ?<\/strong> I’m 23 years old. What do you do in your life ? Any plans ?<\/strong> Currently I am studying for my return to college, I plan to finish my course in engineering. Why did you leave home ?<\/strong> I left home for the first time when I attended my first year of college in the years 2019 – 2020, living with my friend in an apartment in central Galway city, Ireland. I then left for a second time shortly after that working in Clifden for about a 10 month period where I Received staff accommodation. I then left home again shortly after the passing of my father to work and gain enough money to be able to return back to college and continue my education. I worked in a hotel called Ballynahinch Castle where I worked as a waiter\/barman. Where is your home now ? <\/strong>My home now is in Cleggan Co. Galway it’s a small fishing village in the very west of Ireland. What is\/was your relationship with your parents’ house ? <\/strong>I have always had a deep connection to my parents house. Perhaps it’s the fact my father built the house with a lot of help of course. He constructed the house when he was starting his family. There is something quite symbolic about that. It’s a place of solitude and comfort to me. What does “being an adult” mean to you ? <\/strong>I believe being an adult means a lot of different things to a lot of different people, some believe success in your career or to another its being emotionally and spiritually mature and to some it’s simply passing the age of 18. However I believe an adult is somebody who can be relied upon, is emotionally connected to the ones they love and the people around them and who contributes to their society. Do you feel like an adult ? <\/strong>Yes, I do feel like an adult. I feel responsibility for my actions and for the people I care for. When did you first feel like an adult ? <\/strong>I suppose I first felt like an adult when my father first was diagnosed with cancer, we had a lengthy discussion on how I would have to look after my sisters and my mother and be there for them when they needed me. I took on this tremendous sense of responsibility for them and that’s when I suppose it snapped in my head. This is what it means to be a man a, an adult. Do you have confidence in yourself ? <\/strong>Yes I do. When was\/is the moment when you feel fully accomplished ? <\/strong>I don\u2019t feel fully accomplished [smile] ! In Ireland, is there pressure from society to be a successful adult after a certain age ? <\/strong>Yeah. I do believe so. Hence why so many young Irish people, Including some of my closest friends, emigrate to Australia. They can work in a vast job market for a handsome wage and pursue their dreams. Have you ever gone on a trip alone for more than three months ? <\/strong>No I have never. Would I want to? Absolutely. Although not at this point in my life. I first need to finish my studies. I also feel like I would have to get more used to traveling first before I do it alone. Having said that, there is something attractive about just going to another country by yourself and experiencing the county how you want to. Do you feel you have matured after leaving your country to live by yourself away from your home, with a new language ?<\/strong> I\u2019ve never experienced it, so I could not say.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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At what age did you leave on your own for the first time ? How was this departure ? <\/strong>I suppose it would have been the age of 18 just after finishing High school. I worked a in a hotel that provide staff accommodation. I lived in a house with two other workers. The departure was not difficult for me, I quickly made friends which helped me a lot. Did traveling to another country, to new cities, help you grow up ?<\/strong> Oh yes for sure. Why have you never gone on a trip? <\/strong>I suppose it’s fear of the unknown. For you, age is an important element to feel like an adult ? <\/strong>No, I have met plenty of people who are much older than me and far less responsible and put together than myself and i have also met plenty people who are younger than me who or my age who have started families and businesses of their own. For you, does the fact that you are a man or a woman change the situation ? <\/strong>No, I don’t think so. Do you have a story to share about a situation where you said to yourself “Oh shit, that’s an adult thing I haven\u2019t done before !” ? <\/strong>I have too many stories to add. Here is a good one. In Clifden, the town closest to my village, if you need any kind of building materials you must go to the supply center. This is essentially a large warehouse full of bored middle aged men who know a lot about the different trades, have been construction workers, plumbers, wielders, etc.. all their lives, So when you walk in there there is an aura of manliness, So it was my first time ordering in there. I had revised the order in my head, I made my way to the counter and the man behind the counter just stared at me. No hello no nothing. So I recant my order and tell him to put it on my fathers account. \u201cOkay\u201d he replies, and that was it! I remember walking out thinking: \u201cwow i just did a really adult thing just there\u201d. Don’t you feel that being in your twenties is pretty hard to live in our society ? You have to be beautiful, know what you want to do with your life, then find a great job, a great guy, a great girl, be surrounded by people you love, have a great apartment, get married and start a family ? Is this what becoming an adult is all about ? How do you feel now ? <\/strong>Yes I do feel this way, there’s definitely a pressure felt. I believe social media is a huge factor in this. We see attractive, young, successful people and we can’t help but compare their lives to our own and this is very harmful to the psyche. I think it is very important to always remember that these photos are always doctored and the people in these photos’ lives are not as interesting as it would seem. Was it easy for you to become an adult ? <\/strong>In some ways yes and no. I have experienced some amazing moments and some horrific moments. I believe they have all shaped me for the better no matter how bad or good they were. Can you say “no” without difficulty ? <\/strong>No not really and especially in a professional setting. Are you independent, do you always need help ?<\/strong> I suppose scheduling my day a bit better\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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When you’re young, you want to be an adult. Do you remember what attracted you to being a “grown-up” ? <\/strong>I remember being younger, say 11 years old and wishing and wishing to be 18 to look and sound and act like an adult but when you get to those ages you realise, wow it’s not that great to be this age. Is being an adult today what you imagined it to be ? <\/strong>Not at all [smile]<\/em> But I don’t think it\u2019s what anyone imagines it to be. Is being an adult about accepting reality as it is, and stop dreaming ? <\/strong>Not at all. I think if you have a dream it is of utmost importance to fulfill it because so many people have the opportunities to do so. Your fears, your questions about life ? <\/strong>Serious fear of open water. Do you feel like you can shape your life the way you want ?<\/strong> Yes I 100% believe in this statement, I believe you can do anything you put your mind to. For sociologist Susan Nieman, becoming an adult is not about having a job, paying your taxes and saving for your retirement, but about experiencing intellectual and creative emancipation. What do you think about that ? <\/strong>I would agree, I believe knowledge, the ability to express it in a meaningful way and an appreciation for Art and culture is far more important than doing the more, quite frankly, mundane things in life. I do still believe these things are important in becoming an adult though. Being an adult is being serious ? <\/strong>No, not necessarily. But I think being serious in the right situations is an adult thing. Self-mockery is important. Is it an adult thing ? <\/strong>Yeah I believe for a person to look at themselves as a whole and self reflect and find humor in that and not find embarrassment in themselves is an adult thing yes. Great music, great book, great movie to share that has marked you so far ?<\/strong> Great song ? About a girl<\/em>, from Nirvana. Great movie ? No country for old men<\/em>, from Cohen\u2019s brothers. A motto, a quote, a tattoo, anything else that marks your life ? <\/strong>I have a tattoo in Czech that reads: \u2018Don’t die for nothing\u2019. <\/em>I had it done on holidays to the Czech Republic. There was a monument in the middle of Prague old town square commemorating Jan Hus, a philosopher and theologian who led a reformation in the 14th and 15th century in the Czech Republic. The text was actually longer and read: \u2018be alive, o nation consecrated in god, Don’t die for nothing\u2019.<\/em> I feel the first part was applicable to me so I just took the end. I really liked it so I got it tattooed on me in Prague. [smile]<\/em> Any advice for someone who is anxious with all these adult questions ? <\/strong>You still have time, not everyone will be accomplished as others. It doesn’t make you any less valid. Are you happy ? <\/strong>Yes [smile]<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false,"raw":"\n

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Where are you from ?<\/strong> Ireland. How old are you ?<\/strong> I'm 23 years old. What do you do in your life ? Any plans ?<\/strong> Currently I am studying for my return to college, I plan to finish my course in engineering. Why did you leave home ?<\/strong> I left home for the first time when I attended my first year of college in the years 2019 - 2020, living with my friend in an apartment in central Galway city, Ireland. I then left for a second time shortly after that working in Clifden for about a 10 month period where I Received staff accommodation. I then left home again shortly after the passing of my father to work and gain enough money to be able to return back to college and continue my education. I worked in a hotel called Ballynahinch Castle where I worked as a waiter\/barman. Where is your home now ? <\/strong>My home now is in Cleggan Co. Galway it's a small fishing village in the very west of Ireland. What is\/was your relationship with your parents' house ? <\/strong>I have always had a deep connection to my parents house. Perhaps it's the fact my father built the house with a lot of help of course. He constructed the house when he was starting his family. There is something quite symbolic about that. It's a place of solitude and comfort to me. What does \"being an adult\" mean to you ? <\/strong>I believe being an adult means a lot of different things to a lot of different people, some believe success in your career or to another its being emotionally and spiritually mature and to some it's simply passing the age of 18. However I believe an adult is somebody who can be relied upon, is emotionally connected to the ones they love and the people around them and who contributes to their society. Do you feel like an adult ? <\/strong>Yes, I do feel like an adult. I feel responsibility for my actions and for the people I care for. When did you first feel like an adult ? <\/strong>I suppose I first felt like an adult when my father first was diagnosed with cancer, we had a lengthy discussion on how I would have to look after my sisters and my mother and be there for them when they needed me. I took on this tremendous sense of responsibility for them and that's when I suppose it snapped in my head. This is what it means to be a man a, an adult. Do you have confidence in yourself ? <\/strong>Yes I do. When was\/is the moment when you feel fully accomplished ? <\/strong>I don\u2019t feel fully accomplished [smile] ! In Ireland, is there pressure from society to be a successful adult after a certain age ? <\/strong>Yeah. I do believe so. Hence why so many young Irish people, Including some of my closest friends, emigrate to Australia. They can work in a vast job market for a handsome wage and pursue their dreams. Have you ever gone on a trip alone for more than three months ? <\/strong>No I have never. Would I want to? Absolutely. Although not at this point in my life. I first need to finish my studies. I also feel like I would have to get more used to traveling first before I do it alone. Having said that, there is something attractive about just going to another country by yourself and experiencing the county how you want to. Do you feel you have matured after leaving your country to live by yourself away from your home, with a new language ?<\/strong> I\u2019ve never experienced it, so I could not say.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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At what age did you leave on your own for the first time ? How was this departure ? <\/strong>I suppose it would have been the age of 18 just after finishing High school. I worked a in a hotel that provide staff accommodation. I lived in a house with two other workers. The departure was not difficult for me, I quickly made friends which helped me a lot. Did traveling to another country, to new cities, help you grow up ?<\/strong> Oh yes for sure. Why have you never gone on a trip? <\/strong>I suppose it's fear of the unknown. For you, age is an important element to feel like an adult ? <\/strong>No, I have met plenty of people who are much older than me and far less responsible and put together than myself and i have also met plenty people who are younger than me who or my age who have started families and businesses of their own. For you, does the fact that you are a man or a woman change the situation ? <\/strong>No, I don't think so. Do you have a story to share about a situation where you said to yourself \"Oh shit, that's an adult thing I haven\u2019t done before !\" ? <\/strong>I have too many stories to add. Here is a good one. In Clifden, the town closest to my village, if you need any kind of building materials you must go to the supply center. This is essentially a large warehouse full of bored middle aged men who know a lot about the different trades, have been construction workers, plumbers, wielders, etc.. all their lives, So when you walk in there there is an aura of manliness, So it was my first time ordering in there. I had revised the order in my head, I made my way to the counter and the man behind the counter just stared at me. No hello no nothing. So I recant my order and tell him to put it on my fathers account. \u201cOkay\u201d he replies, and that was it! I remember walking out thinking: \u201cwow i just did a really adult thing just there\u201d. Don't you feel that being in your twenties is pretty hard to live in our society ? You have to be beautiful, know what you want to do with your life, then find a great job, a great guy, a great girl, be surrounded by people you love, have a great apartment, get married and start a family ? Is this what becoming an adult is all about ? How do you feel now ? <\/strong>Yes I do feel this way, there's definitely a pressure felt. I believe social media is a huge factor in this. We see attractive, young, successful people and we can't help but compare their lives to our own and this is very harmful to the psyche. I think it is very important to always remember that these photos are always doctored and the people in these photos' lives are not as interesting as it would seem. Was it easy for you to become an adult ? <\/strong>In some ways yes and no. I have experienced some amazing moments and some horrific moments. I believe they have all shaped me for the better no matter how bad or good they were. Can you say \"no\" without difficulty ? <\/strong>No not really and especially in a professional setting. Are you independent, do you always need help ?<\/strong> I suppose scheduling my day a bit better\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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When you're young, you want to be an adult. Do you remember what attracted you to being a \"grown-up\" ? <\/strong>I remember being younger, say 11 years old and wishing and wishing to be 18 to look and sound and act like an adult but when you get to those ages you realise, wow it's not that great to be this age. Is being an adult today what you imagined it to be ? <\/strong>Not at all [smile]<\/em> But I don't think it\u2019s what anyone imagines it to be. Is being an adult about accepting reality as it is, and stop dreaming ? <\/strong>Not at all. I think if you have a dream it is of utmost importance to fulfill it because so many people have the opportunities to do so. Your fears, your questions about life ? <\/strong>Serious fear of open water. Do you feel like you can shape your life the way you want ?<\/strong> Yes I 100% believe in this statement, I believe you can do anything you put your mind to. For sociologist Susan Nieman, becoming an adult is not about having a job, paying your taxes and saving for your retirement, but about experiencing intellectual and creative emancipation. What do you think about that ? <\/strong>I would agree, I believe knowledge, the ability to express it in a meaningful way and an appreciation for Art and culture is far more important than doing the more, quite frankly, mundane things in life. I do still believe these things are important in becoming an adult though. Being an adult is being serious ? <\/strong>No, not necessarily. But I think being serious in the right situations is an adult thing. Self-mockery is important. Is it an adult thing ? <\/strong>Yeah I believe for a person to look at themselves as a whole and self reflect and find humor in that and not find embarrassment in themselves is an adult thing yes. Great music, great book, great movie to share that has marked you so far ?<\/strong> Great song ? About a girl<\/em>, from Nirvana. Great movie ? No country for old men<\/em>, from Cohen\u2019s brothers. A motto, a quote, a tattoo, anything else that marks your life ? <\/strong>I have a tattoo in Czech that reads: \u2018Don't die for nothing\u2019. <\/em>I had it done on holidays to the Czech Republic. There was a monument in the middle of Prague old town square commemorating Jan Hus, a philosopher and theologian who led a reformation in the 14th and 15th century in the Czech Republic. The text was actually longer and read: \u2018be alive, o nation consecrated in god, Don't die for nothing\u2019.<\/em> I feel the first part was applicable to me so I just took the end. I really liked it so I got it tattooed on me in Prague. [smile]<\/em> Any advice for someone who is anxious with all these adult questions ? <\/strong>You still have time, not everyone will be accomplished as others. It doesn't make you any less valid. Are you happy ? <\/strong>Yes [smile]<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n"},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false,"raw":""},"author":2,"featured_media":1468,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_fr_post_content":"\n

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Tu viens d\u2019o\u00f9 ? <\/strong>D' Irlande. Tu as quel \u00e2ge ? <\/strong>J'ai 23 ans. Tu fais quoi dans ta vie ? C\u2019est quoi tes projets ? <\/strong>Actuellement, je suis en train d'\u00e9tudier pour retourner \u00e0 l'universit\u00e9, j'ai l'intention de terminer mes \u00e9tudes d'ing\u00e9nieur. Pourquoi t\u2019es parti de chez toi ? <\/strong>J'ai quitt\u00e9 la maison pour la premi\u00e8re fois lorsque j'ai suivi ma premi\u00e8re ann\u00e9e d'universit\u00e9 dans les ann\u00e9es 2019 - 2020, en vivant avec un ami dans un appartement au centre de Galway. .J'ai ensuite quitt\u00e9 la maison pour la deuxi\u00e8me fois peu de temps apr\u00e8s, en travaillant \u00e0 Clifden pendant une p\u00e9riode d'environ 10 mois, o\u00f9 j'ai re\u00e7u des logements pour le personnel. Peu apr\u00e8s le d\u00e9c\u00e8s de mon p\u00e8re, j'ai de nouveau quitt\u00e9 la maison pour travailler et gagner suffisamment d'argent pour pouvoir retourner \u00e0 l'universit\u00e9 et poursuivre mes \u00e9tudes. J'ai travaill\u00e9 dans  l\u2019h\u00f4tel du Ballynahinch Castle<\/em> en tant que serveur\/barman. Tu habites o\u00f9 maintenant ? <\/strong>Je vis actuellement \u00e0 Cleggan Co. Galway, un petit village de p\u00eacheurs situ\u00e9 \u00e0 l'extr\u00eame ouest de l'Irlande. C\u2019est quoi ta relation avec la maison de tes parents ? <\/strong>J'ai toujours eu un lien profond avec la maison de mes parents. C'est peut-\u00eatre d\u00fb au fait que mon p\u00e8re l'a construite, avec beaucoup d'aide, bien s\u00fbr. Il a construit la maison alors qu'il fondait sa famille. Il y a quelque chose de tr\u00e8s symbolique l\u00e0-dedans. C'est un lieu de solitude et de r\u00e9confort pour moi. Ca signifie quoi pour toi \"\u00eatre adulte\" ? <\/strong>Je pense qu'\u00eatre adulte signifie beaucoup de choses diff\u00e9rentes pour beaucoup de gens, certains croient que c'est r\u00e9ussir dans sa carri\u00e8re, d'autres que c'est \u00eatre m\u00fbr \u00e9motionnellement et spirituellement, et d'autres encore pensent que c'est simplement avoir pass\u00e9 l'\u00e2ge de 18 ans. Toutefois, je pense qu'un adulte est quelqu'un sur qui on peut compter, qui est \u00e9motionnellement connect\u00e9 \u00e0 ceux qu'il aime et aux gens qui l'entourent, et qui contribue \u00e0 la soci\u00e9t\u00e9. Tu te sens adulte toi ?<\/strong> Oui, je me sens adulte. Je me sens responsable de mes actes et des personnes dont je m'occupe. La premi\u00e8re fois que tu t\u2019es senti adulte ? <\/strong>Je suppose que je me suis sentie adulte pour la premi\u00e8re fois lorsqu'on a diagnostiqu\u00e9 un cancer chez mon p\u00e8re. Nous avons longuement discut\u00e9 tous les deux de la fa\u00e7on dont je devais m'occuper de mes s\u0153urs et de ma m\u00e8re et \u00eatre l\u00e0 pour elles lorsqu'elles auraient besoin de moi. J'ai pris un \u00e9norme sentiment de responsabilit\u00e9 \u00e0 leur \u00e9gard et c'est \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 que j'ai eu un d\u00e9clic dans ma t\u00eate. C'est ce que signifie \u00eatre un homme, un adulte. Tu as confiance en toi ? <\/strong>Oui. Quel est le moment o\u00f9 tu te sens pleinement accompli ? <\/strong>Je ne me sens jamais pleinement accompli. En Irlande, la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 exerce-t-elle une pression pour que tu sois un adulte accompli \u00e0 partit d\u2019un certain \u00e2ge ? <\/strong>Oui, je le crois. C'est pourquoi tant de jeunes Irlandais, dont certains de mes amis les plus proches, \u00e9migrent en Australie. Ils peuvent travailler sur un vaste march\u00e9 de l'emploi pour un bon salaire et poursuivre leurs r\u00eaves. T'es d\u00e9j\u00e0 parti seul en voyage pendant plus de trois mois ? <\/strong>Non, je ne l'ai jamais fait. Le voudrais-je ? Absolument. Mais pas \u00e0 ce stade de ma vie. Je dois d'abord terminer mes \u00e9tudes. J'ai aussi l'impression que je devrais d'abord m'habituer \u00e0 voyager avant de le faire seul. Cela dit, il y a quelque chose de s\u00e9duisant dans le fait de se rendre seul dans un autre pays et d'en faire l'exp\u00e9rience que l\u2019on imagine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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A quel \u00e2ge es-tu parti seul pour la premi\u00e8re fois ? Comment t\u2019as v\u00e9cu \u00e7a\u00a0? <\/strong>Je suppose que c'\u00e9tait \u00e0 l'\u00e2ge de 18 ans, juste apr\u00e8s avoir termin\u00e9 le lyc\u00e9e. Je travaillais dans un h\u00f4tel qui fournissait des logements au personnel. Je vivais dans une maison avec deux autres employ\u00e9s. Le d\u00e9part n'a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 difficile pour moi, je me suis rapidement fait des amis, ce qui m'a beaucoup aid\u00e9. Le fait de voyager dans un autre pays, dans de nouvelles villes, \u00e7a t\u2019a aid\u00e9 \u00e0 grandir ?<\/strong> Oui, bien s\u00fbr. Pourquoi n\u2019es-tu jamais parti en voyage ?<\/strong> Je suppose que c'est la peur de l'inconnu. Pour toi, l'\u00e2ge est un \u00e9l\u00e9ment important pour se sentir adulte ? <\/strong>Non, j'ai rencontr\u00e9 beaucoup de personnes beaucoup plus \u00e2g\u00e9es que moi et beaucoup moins responsables et organis\u00e9es que moi. J'ai aussi rencontr\u00e9 beaucoup de personnes plus jeunes que moi ou de mon \u00e2ge qui ont fond\u00e9 leur propre famille et leur propre entreprise. Pour toi, le fait d'\u00eatre un homme ou une femme change-t-il la donne ? <\/strong>Non, je ne pense pas. Une histoire \u00e0 raconter sur une situation o\u00f9 tu t\u2019es dit \u00ab\u00a0Oh merde, \u00e7a, c'est un truc d'adulte que je ne faisais pas avant\u00a0!\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0? <\/strong>J'ai trop d'histoires en t\u00eate. En voici une bonne. \u00c0 Clifden, la ville la plus proche de mon village, si vous avez besoin de mat\u00e9riaux de construction, vous devez vous rendre au centre d'approvisionnement. Il s'agit essentiellement d'un grand entrep\u00f4t rempli d'hommes d'\u00e2ge moyen qui s'ennuient et qui en savent beaucoup sur les diff\u00e9rents m\u00e9tiers, qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 ouvriers du b\u00e2timent, plombiers, manieurs d'armes, etc. toute leur vie, de sorte que lorsque vous entrez l\u00e0, il y a une aura de virilit\u00e9. J'avais r\u00e9vis\u00e9 la commande dans ma t\u00eate, je me suis dirig\u00e9 vers le comptoir et l'homme derri\u00e8re le comptoir m'a juste regard\u00e9 fixement. Pas de bonjour, rien. Je me suis donc r\u00e9tract\u00e9 et je lui ai dit de mettre ma commande sur le compte de mon p\u00e8re. Il m'a r\u00e9pondu \"D'accord\", et c'est tout ! Je me souviens d'\u00eatre sorti en pensant : \"wow, je viens de faire un truc d'adulte, juste l\u00e0\". N\u2019as-tu pas l'impression qu'il est assez difficile de vivre dans la vingtaine dans notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 ? Il faut \u00eatre beau, savoir ce que l'on veut faire de sa vie, puis trouver le bon job, le bon gars, la bonne fille, \u00eatre entour\u00e9, avoir le bon appart, se marier et fonder une famille ? C'est \u00e7a, devenir adulte ? Tu te sens comment aujourd\u2019hui ? <\/strong>Oui, c'est ce que je ressens, il y a vraiment une pression qui se fait sentir. Je pense que les m\u00e9dias sociaux y sont pour beaucoup. Nous voyons des gens s\u00e9duisants, jeunes et prosp\u00e8res et nous ne pouvons pas nous emp\u00eacher de comparer leur vie \u00e0 la n\u00f4tre, ce qui est tr\u00e8s n\u00e9faste pour le psychisme. Je pense qu'il est tr\u00e8s important de toujours se rappeler que ces photos sont toujours trafiqu\u00e9es et que la vie des personnes sur ces photos n'est pas aussi int\u00e9ressante qu'il n'y para\u00eet. A-t-il \u00e9t\u00e9 facile pour toi de devenir adulte ?<\/strong> D'une certaine mani\u00e8re, oui et non. J'ai v\u00e9cu des moments extraordinaires et des moments horribles. Je crois qu'ils m'ont tous fa\u00e7onn\u00e9 pour le meilleur, qu'ils aient \u00e9t\u00e9 bons ou mauvais. Tu sais dire \"non\" sans difficult\u00e9 ? <\/strong>Non, pas vraiment, surtout dans un cadre professionnel.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Y a-t-il un domaine sp\u00e9cifique dans lequel tu es toujours d\u00e9pendant, o\u00f9 tu as toujours besoin d'aide ?<\/strong> J\u2019imagine que j\u2019ai toujours du mal \u00e0 organiser mes journ\u00e9es correctement. Quand on est jeune, on veut \u00eatre adulte. Tu te souviens de ce qui t\u2019attirait dans la vie d'adulte ? <\/strong>Je me souviens d'avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 plus jeune, disons 11 ans, et d'avoir souhait\u00e9 avoir 18 ans pour ressembler \u00e0 un adulte et agir comme tel, mais quand on arrive \u00e0 cet \u00e2ge, on se rend compte que ce n'est pas si g\u00e9nial que \u00e7a d'avoir cet \u00e2ge-l\u00e0. Est-ce que le fait d'\u00eatre adulte aujourd'hui correspond \u00e0 ce que tu t\u2019imaginais ? <\/strong>Pas du tout [sourire] <\/em>et je ne pense pas que ce soit ce que tout le monde imagine ! Est-ce qu'\u00eatre adulte, c'est accepter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 telle qu'elle est, et arr\u00eater de r\u00eaver ? <\/strong>Pas du tout. Je pense que si vous avez un r\u00eave, il est primordial de le r\u00e9aliser car beaucoup de gens ont l'opportunit\u00e9 de le faire. Tes peurs, tes questions sur la vie ? <\/strong>J'ai une grande peur de l'eau libre. As-tu le sentiment de pouvoir fa\u00e7onner ta vie comme tu l\u2019entends ?<\/strong> Oui, j'y crois \u00e0 100 %. Je pense que l'on peut faire tout ce que l'on veut. Pour la sociologue Susan Nieman, devenir adulte ne consiste pas \u00e0 avoir un emploi, \u00e0 payer ses imp\u00f4ts et \u00e0 \u00e9pargner pour sa retraite, mais \u00e0 faire l'exp\u00e9rience de l'\u00e9mancipation intellectuelle et cr\u00e9ative. T\u2019en penses quoi toi ? <\/strong>Je suis d'accord, je pense que la connaissance, la capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 l'exprimer de mani\u00e8re significative et l'appr\u00e9ciation de l'art et de la culture sont bien plus importantes que les choses plus franchement banales de la vie. Je pense n\u00e9anmoins que ces choses sont importantes pour devenir adulte. \u00catre adulte, c'est \u00eatre s\u00e9rieux ? <\/strong>Non, pas n\u00e9cessairement. Cependant, je pense qu'\u00eatre s\u00e9rieux dans les bonnes situations est une chose adulte. L'autod\u00e9rision est importante. C\u2019est un truc d\u2019adulte ? <\/strong>Oui, je pense qu'une personne qui se regarde dans son ensemble, qui s'auto-r\u00e9fl\u00e9chit, qui trouve de l'humour et qui n'est pas embarrass\u00e9e par elle-m\u00eame est une chose adulte, oui. Une musique, un livre, un film \u00e0 partager qui t\u2019a marqu\u00e9 jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent ? <\/strong>Une superbe musique ? About a girl<\/em>, de Nirvana. Un film ?No country for old men<\/em>, des fr\u00e8res Cohen. Une devise, une citation, un tatouage, quelque chose qui marque ta vie ? <\/strong>J'ai un tatouage en tch\u00e8que qui dit : \u00ab Ne meurt pas pour rien \u00bb.<\/em> Je l'ai fait faire pendant mes vacances en R\u00e9publique Tch\u00e8que. Il y avait un monument au milieu de la place de la vieille ville de Prague comm\u00e9morant Jan Hus, un philosophe et th\u00e9ologien qui a men\u00e9 une r\u00e9forme aux 14e et 15e si\u00e8cles en R\u00e9publique Tch\u00e8que. Le texte \u00e9tait en fait plus long et disait : \"Sois vivant, \u00f4 nation consacr\u00e9e \u00e0 Dieu, ne meurs pas pour rien\".<\/em> J'ai pens\u00e9 que la premi\u00e8re partie s'appliquait \u00e0 moi, alors j'ai pris la fin. J'ai vraiment aim\u00e9 ce texte et je me le suis fait tatouer \u00e0 Prague. <\/strong>[sourire]<\/em> Un conseil pour quelqu'un qui est angoiss\u00e9 par toutes ces questions d'adulte ? <\/strong>Tu as encore le temps, tout le monde ne sera pas aussi accompli que les autres. Cela ne te rend pas moins valable. T'es heureux ? <\/strong>Oui ! [sourire]<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","_fr_post_name":"noel-2","_fr_post_excerpt":"","_fr_post_title":"NOEL","_en_post_content":"\n

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Where are you from ?<\/strong> Ireland. How old are you ?<\/strong> I'm 23 years old. What do you do in your life ? Any plans ?<\/strong> Currently I am studying for my return to college, I plan to finish my course in engineering. Why did you leave home ?<\/strong> I left home for the first time when I attended my first year of college in the years 2019 - 2020, living with my friend in an apartment in central Galway city, Ireland. I then left for a second time shortly after that working in Clifden for about a 10 month period where I Received staff accommodation. I then left home again shortly after the passing of my father to work and gain enough money to be able to return back to college and continue my education. I worked in a hotel called Ballynahinch Castle where I worked as a waiter\/barman. Where is your home now ? <\/strong>My home now is in Cleggan Co. Galway it's a small fishing village in the very west of Ireland. What is\/was your relationship with your parents' house ? <\/strong>I have always had a deep connection to my parents house. Perhaps it's the fact my father built the house with a lot of help of course. He constructed the house when he was starting his family. There is something quite symbolic about that. It's a place of solitude and comfort to me. What does \"being an adult\" mean to you ? <\/strong>I believe being an adult means a lot of different things to a lot of different people, some believe success in your career or to another its being emotionally and spiritually mature and to some it's simply passing the age of 18. However I believe an adult is somebody who can be relied upon, is emotionally connected to the ones they love and the people around them and who contributes to their society. Do you feel like an adult ? <\/strong>Yes, I do feel like an adult. I feel responsibility for my actions and for the people I care for. When did you first feel like an adult ? <\/strong>I suppose I first felt like an adult when my father first was diagnosed with cancer, we had a lengthy discussion on how I would have to look after my sisters and my mother and be there for them when they needed me. I took on this tremendous sense of responsibility for them and that's when I suppose it snapped in my head. This is what it means to be a man a, an adult. Do you have confidence in yourself ? <\/strong>Yes I do. When was\/is the moment when you feel fully accomplished ? <\/strong>I don\u2019t feel fully accomplished [smile] ! In Ireland, is there pressure from society to be a successful adult after a certain age ? <\/strong>Yeah. I do believe so. Hence why so many young Irish people, Including some of my closest friends, emigrate to Australia. They can work in a vast job market for a handsome wage and pursue their dreams. Have you ever gone on a trip alone for more than three months ? <\/strong>No I have never. Would I want to? Absolutely. Although not at this point in my life. I first need to finish my studies. I also feel like I would have to get more used to traveling first before I do it alone. Having said that, there is something attractive about just going to another country by yourself and experiencing the county how you want to. Do you feel you have matured after leaving your country to live by yourself away from your home, with a new language ?<\/strong> I\u2019ve never experienced it, so I could not say.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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At what age did you leave on your own for the first time ? How was this departure ? <\/strong>I suppose it would have been the age of 18 just after finishing High school. I worked a in a hotel that provide staff accommodation. I lived in a house with two other workers. The departure was not difficult for me, I quickly made friends which helped me a lot. Did traveling to another country, to new cities, help you grow up ?<\/strong> Oh yes for sure. Why have you never gone on a trip? <\/strong>I suppose it's fear of the unknown. For you, age is an important element to feel like an adult ? <\/strong>No, I have met plenty of people who are much older than me and far less responsible and put together than myself and i have also met plenty people who are younger than me who or my age who have started families and businesses of their own. For you, does the fact that you are a man or a woman change the situation ? <\/strong>No, I don't think so. Do you have a story to share about a situation where you said to yourself \"Oh shit, that's an adult thing I haven\u2019t done before !\" ? <\/strong>I have too many stories to add. Here is a good one. In Clifden, the town closest to my village, if you need any kind of building materials you must go to the supply center. This is essentially a large warehouse full of bored middle aged men who know a lot about the different trades, have been construction workers, plumbers, wielders, etc.. all their lives, So when you walk in there there is an aura of manliness, So it was my first time ordering in there. I had revised the order in my head, I made my way to the counter and the man behind the counter just stared at me. No hello no nothing. So I recant my order and tell him to put it on my fathers account. \u201cOkay\u201d he replies, and that was it! I remember walking out thinking: \u201cwow i just did a really adult thing just there\u201d. Don't you feel that being in your twenties is pretty hard to live in our society ? You have to be beautiful, know what you want to do with your life, then find a great job, a great guy, a great girl, be surrounded by people you love, have a great apartment, get married and start a family ? Is this what becoming an adult is all about ? How do you feel now ? <\/strong>Yes I do feel this way, there's definitely a pressure felt. I believe social media is a huge factor in this. We see attractive, young, successful people and we can't help but compare their lives to our own and this is very harmful to the psyche. I think it is very important to always remember that these photos are always doctored and the people in these photos' lives are not as interesting as it would seem. Was it easy for you to become an adult ? <\/strong>In some ways yes and no. I have experienced some amazing moments and some horrific moments. I believe they have all shaped me for the better no matter how bad or good they were. Can you say \"no\" without difficulty ? <\/strong>No not really and especially in a professional setting. Are you independent, do you always need help ?<\/strong> I suppose scheduling my day a bit better\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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When you're young, you want to be an adult. Do you remember what attracted you to being a \"grown-up\" ? <\/strong>I remember being younger, say 11 years old and wishing and wishing to be 18 to look and sound and act like an adult but when you get to those ages you realise, wow it's not that great to be this age. Is being an adult today what you imagined it to be ? <\/strong>Not at all [smile]<\/em> But I don't think it\u2019s what anyone imagines it to be. Is being an adult about accepting reality as it is, and stop dreaming ? <\/strong>Not at all. I think if you have a dream it is of utmost importance to fulfill it because so many people have the opportunities to do so. Your fears, your questions about life ? <\/strong>Serious fear of open water. Do you feel like you can shape your life the way you want ?<\/strong> Yes I 100% believe in this statement, I believe you can do anything you put your mind to. For sociologist Susan Nieman, becoming an adult is not about having a job, paying your taxes and saving for your retirement, but about experiencing intellectual and creative emancipation. What do you think about that ? <\/strong>I would agree, I believe knowledge, the ability to express it in a meaningful way and an appreciation for Art and culture is far more important than doing the more, quite frankly, mundane things in life. I do still believe these things are important in becoming an adult though. Being an adult is being serious ? <\/strong>No, not necessarily. But I think being serious in the right situations is an adult thing. Self-mockery is important. Is it an adult thing ? <\/strong>Yeah I believe for a person to look at themselves as a whole and self reflect and find humor in that and not find embarrassment in themselves is an adult thing yes. Great music, great book, great movie to share that has marked you so far ?<\/strong> Great song ? About a girl<\/em>, from Nirvana. Great movie ? No country for old men<\/em>, from Cohen\u2019s brothers. A motto, a quote, a tattoo, anything else that marks your life ? <\/strong>I have a tattoo in Czech that reads: \u2018Don't die for nothing\u2019. <\/em>I had it done on holidays to the Czech Republic. There was a monument in the middle of Prague old town square commemorating Jan Hus, a philosopher and theologian who led a reformation in the 14th and 15th century in the Czech Republic. The text was actually longer and read: \u2018be alive, o nation consecrated in god, Don't die for nothing\u2019.<\/em> I feel the first part was applicable to me so I just took the end. I really liked it so I got it tattooed on me in Prague. [smile]<\/em> Any advice for someone who is anxious with all these adult questions ? <\/strong>You still have time, not everyone will be accomplished as others. It doesn't make you any less valid. 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